It is a fact that preparing any meaningful diet requires a blend of two or more ingredients. It has never happened that oil alone or fish alone had made a tasty stew. The process requires more spices to make it delicious.
This recipe model best describes the marriage formation which takes two or more activities to maintain its viability.
Another instance of marriage can be likened to a situation whereby people eat one type of food over and over again which We all know of the health and natural implications.
Health experts maintain that our diets ought to be balanced in order to maintain the right proportion of nutrients. Our personal attitude towards a one-way meal is also the obvious; we lose appetite.
As we all know, getting hooked to one person for five,ten or a life-time is as it were a great challenge like eating one kind of food over a long period of time or using only one ingredient to prepare a meal.
This two demonstrations however,clearly tells us that, our marriage would be boring,flavorless,tasteless and perishable without SPICING IT. Enumerated below are few points that would direct us on the means to spicing our marriages.
1. DON’T STOP DATING H/IM/ER : Dating is a just a mock marriage and must rather graduate when it ends up into marriage. So just as lovers crack jokes,hangout at the pool and restaurants,express deep feelings of affections by holding hands and arms during dating, it must grow better when they end up in marriage. It must not stop.
2. VARY YOUR ROMANTIC LIFESTYLES:
Doing the same thing over and over is monotonous and ought to be varied. So our romantic acts such as sexual postures, style of kissing,eye and body gestures and perhaps our romantic languages must be modified. This makes everyday a new day without stress but with beauty.
3. COMPLEMENT EACH OTHER:
our society has evolved from a simple to a complex state whereby women are equally employed as men. Women are therefore compelled by their statuses to be responsible for many roles of the husband like the payment of school fees,utility bills and so on.
Relative to this, men must also take up certain duties of the wife like cooking, washing etc. This would renew the agenda of the marriage to its endless glory.
4. BEING GODLY PARTNERS:
we must also note that, spices do not only make food tasty but preserves it. Partners who are Godly are ten times likely to sustain their marriage over time than the ungodly because they believe that the founder of marriage is God. They therefore commit all their petty differences to God for solutions other than separating on their egos.
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