I once posted an article on ‘ My Ten Rules .’ From these personal rules I thought that wouldn’t it be great for my children to base their lives on these. So, here are my ’21 Lessons I want to Teach my Children before I die.’
A life without a purpose is not worth living. A 100 year life is made up of minutes and seconds. Make every minute count. Live each minute with a purpose. Think sustainable, have the bigger picture in mind. Remember there is a bigger goal. Do not sell your future for a cup of soup. God first, your spouse second and then everyone else. This is the divine order, a key that open blessings. Opportunities are everywhere, waiting to be discovered. Open your eyes and see. Live a life of honour. You have to earn respect and a good reputation. You reap what you sow. This is the key to success, and failure as well. Take your life as a seed sown to the world. Your every action has a reaction. Direct your actions and set them in a way to create a reaction that propels you toward you destiny. Responsibility, accountability and integrity are priceless. These are the foundations of sustainable success. We all unique. We have unique callings and unique gifts. You have a unique position to fill. You are a unique contribution to the world. We are all equal in value. Even the smallest of all can change the future. Patience pays. Maturity and growth takes time. Many things are achieved in waiting. There is power in patience. Nothing can stop someone who has made up his/her mind. You cannot achieve something you do not believe. You cannot convince someone about something you are not convinced with. We are our biggest stumbling block. Stop blaming others. You never rise above your belief. Cultivate and develop your faith. Defend your faith with all your strength. Stay away from dream killers. Normally, the longest road takes you highest. Beware of get rich quick schemes and taking stupid short cuts. Short cuts have the highest risks but long roads are used to build solid foundations. And as you walk, there is enough time to learn and you grow as you rise higher. Nothing is for free, even if they say it’s free. Someone always pays or someone has already paid for it. You have to down the valley in order to climb the mountain. Success is not a stroll in the park. It is about effort, sowing and hard work. It is about making many mistakes and learning from each of them. Enjoy everyday life. Life is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy every moment of it. So enjoy the valleys and enjoy the mountain tops. Never use anyone for free. What goes around comes around. You act of kindness can unlock you next great opportunity. There is only one chance to make the first impression. Be prepared. You cannot relive your life. Give it the best shot every time. There is no sky to limit you. Records are made to be broken. You can do anything, yes you can. You have to believe it and do it. Be real. You are the only you in the whole world. Do not be who you are not.
I hope you took something from these lessons and that you will draw up your ‘Lessons to Teach your children before you die.’ Before you teach them to your children, first live these lessons.
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About Taka Sande:
Taka Sande is an author, an entrepreneur and development activist. He has a passion for making a difference by influencing and adding value to people’s lives. He is the founder of the blog It’s My Footprint, http://www.itsmyfootprint.com /. His personal website is www.takasande.com .
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