Eccentric marriage Counsellor, George Lutterodt has said any married man who has a penchant for scrutinizing contents on his wife’s phone is suffering from brain damage.
According to him, a matured married man will not busy himself always wanting to see who has called his wife or sent her messages.
Speaking on Kasapa FM’s Afisem show hosted by Serwah Akoto, the controversial counsellor urged spouses to put passwords on their phones immediately they get married, to avoid their partners spying on their phones.
“Every man who checks his wife’s phone is not a man. He’s sick, he has brain damage and needs management in the brain. As soon as you get married put password on your phone. Use any medium possible to place the password on your phone. If you don’t have password on your phone, what are you doing to yourself. Because these gadgets are not supposed to aid us in marriage, we are supposed to have communication but this gadget is destroying relationships. If you are in bed with your wife and someone calls her at 1:00 am why are you supposed to be angry with the one who called your wife, if you are matured in marriage,” he said.
He said marriage constitutes what is described as high risk in life “that is why we don’t marry on the basis of trust…trust is not for marriage, it should be based on believe. This is because in believe whatever happens can easily be forgiven but in trust it cannot be; that is why God said trust no man.”